The second song I ever heard by Madonna, back in MTV's infancy was "Holiday." A holiday during a global pandemic is a weird thing. Many people who could really use a holiday are busting their behinds to take care of the rest of us. Of the rest of us, I assume a majority (thank you) did what we've pretty much been doing for the last couple of months - stayed home, stayed distant. Worked in the yard.
Crabapple blossoms made my sidewalk fancy. |
My grandma's little pitcher. She was a lily of the valley fan. |
I think some people expanded their bubbles to allow grandparents to see grandchildren. I get that, although I'm concerned about the mixing of bubbles.
I talked to some friends - outside - at a distance of at least 10 feet, and went for a masked walk around the lake keeping 6 feet between my friend and me.
Anyhow, there's this line toward the end of Holiday:
"Let love shine
And we will findA way to come together
Can make things better
We need a holiday."
I like the message of love and things getting better, even if (or, actually, especially if) our "coming together," is in solidarity to stay home and otherwise mask up.
I thought about love when I rode on Saturday morning. For the first time this season, West River Road was deserted enough for me to take that pretty route along the river from downtown to my house. My whole route was pretty deserted, actually, so I shifted and took a couple of paths - not just roads - using my buff as a mask from time to time. I had some time to be alone with my thoughts.
This weekend last year was the last time I saw my Dad before he died unexpectedly in August. (I was scheduled to see him a few days after he died, sadly). Anyhow, we were in Kentucky for my cousin's wedding. My Dad texted me right away the first morning after my late flight in, asking me where my Airbnb was, so he could walk by and see it. And then, once he got there, he was too impatient to let me go about my morning routine or to let Dan sleep - he called me on my cell phone and made me look out the window so he could wave to me and gave me instructions about where to meet him for breakfast in 30 minutes. In addition to doing extended family things, my parents, Dan, and I tried to do a poorly designed self-guided walking tour of Lexington. The four of us also went with my cousin Sarah and her husband Sam on a tour of the Woodford bourbon distillery.
My Dad, so serious about his lesson. |
When riding, I was thinking about my Dad's impatience to see me that first morning in Kentucky. Thinking about his fierce and steady love of his family, a constant my whole life.
I was in the 3rd grade here, I think, since that shirt and sweater also appeared in my 3rd grade class photo. |
If my Dad were still with us, he'd be so worried about us all. It would have been hard to make him stay away from his grandkids, but he would have followed the guidelines and found some goofy mask and would have texted us photos of him modeling it. I don't think he appreciated Madonna, but he would have appreciated that last part of Holiday, about coming together as community, to share love and make the world a better place.
I enjoyed having a long weekend, even it it was occasionally rainy and rather humid. I meant to ride all three days, but only rode twice; although I did walk over 8 miles today. My back was bothering me the other day, I think due to poor posture on my old bike while the new one got a new chain and cables as well as due hunching over weeds in the garden. I think it will be hard for me to do 150 miles over a couple of days in a couple of weeks, but I'll try.
I forgot that riding in the rain is better when I put a seat cover to block that opening. My wet and sandy non-biking capris looked like they were worn my a toddler who was being potty trained. |